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Support through a high conflict divorce
A high conflict divorce doesn't just end a relationship — it pulls you into months, sometimes years, of tension, second-guessing, and difficult communication. You're allowed to be exhausted. This is a calm, private space to steady your nerves, protect your peace, and remember who you are outside of the conflict.
Who this is for
- Anyone divorcing a partner who won't disengage — arguments, drama, ongoing pressure
- People co-parenting with a difficult, controlling, or unpredictable ex
- Those navigating a legal process that keeps pulling them off balance
- Anyone questioning their own reality after long stretches of conflict
What I offer
- 60-minute reflection sessions to slow the noise and think clearly
- Practical tools for emotional boundaries and low-reactivity communication
- A structured package for the long arc — steady support through the whole process
- A confidential, judgment-free space — nothing you share leaves the room
How I work
We won't diagnose your ex, and I won't tell you what to do legally. What we will do is create room to breathe — sorting what's yours to carry from what isn't, building small daily practices that protect your nervous system, and finding steadier ground for the decisions ahead. Gentle, honest, unhurried.
Common questions
What makes a divorce 'high conflict'?
Usually it's a pattern — ongoing arguments, mixed signals, pressure, or a partner who won't disengage even after the relationship has ended. If every interaction leaves you drained or shaken, that pattern is worth naming.
Is this therapy or legal advice?
Neither. I'm a life coach and mentor with a psychology background — I offer supportive companionship and practical tools. For clinical treatment or legal strategy, you'll want a licensed therapist or family lawyer alongside this work.
How do I set boundaries with someone who ignores them?
Boundaries in high conflict situations aren't about changing the other person — they're about what you'll do, how you'll respond, and what you'll no longer engage with. We work on that together, in small, realistic steps.
Can you help with co-parenting communication?
Yes. We can look at message templates, tone, timing, and how to keep exchanges brief and low-reactivity — protecting both you and your children.
Do you offer sessions in Russian?
Yes — sessions are available in both English and Russian, whichever feels most natural for the harder conversations.
No pressure
Just a conversation, when you're ready.
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